Why don t women find me attractive
Well you might be right, but not for the reasons you think.
This guy is the first one to volunteer to help her move but the last one she wants to sleep with. That kind of desperation is not attractive.
If he fails or gets rejected, so be it.
That is far more attractive than a guy who just tries to get people to like him. This guy needs to have a girlfriend or dates lined up just for his own validation.