Every month in Sex at Our Age, award-winning senior sexpert Joan Price answers your questions about everything from loss of desire to solo sex and partner issues.
Nothing is out of bounds! To send your questions directly to Joan, email sexpert seniorplanet. I enjoy my vibrator, but I miss the feeling of skin on skin and the embrace of another body.
I want to feel exciting and excited. Sometimes I wish I could just have a man in bed for an afternoon when I want him, then have him go away. Is that sexist, treating a grown man like a boy toy? I was brought up to see sex and love as part of the same package, preferably pointing to marriage.
Is that even possible for women?
How do I bring sex back into my life? How would I even do that? You ask some great questions.
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Whatever works for two people mutually is much more important than any either-or rule. The right FWB might be closer than you think. Or they may be in a relationship founded on ethical non-monogamy.
There are many reasons that people of our age want a sexual partner My friend mature 52 years old a committed relationship. Maybe you already have the right friend, and just need to add the benefits!
You ask whether this kind of relationship is possible for women. Yes, for many women. Are you likely to get too emotionally involved, or is he?
Emotions are tricky, and the best way to deal with whatever comes up is to communicate clearly before you get involved, during the involvement and afterwards if either of you needs to end it. She had a close friend who was also open to a sexual friendship without commitment, and some exploratory kissing showed them that they really were sexually attracted to each other. They talked about their needs, desires, expectations and boundaries, being careful to speak honestly and non-judgmentally, and to really listen to each other.
Their FWB relationship lasted two years. During that time they were friends first and foremost, and sexual partners as an added bonus.
And show your partner that you value your health and his by always practicing safer sex. See more about safer sex here.
Would you like to see more questions and answers? Send Joan your questions by emailing sexpert seniorplanet. All information is confidential.
How to Maintain — or Regain! Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty. Seems many at this age range have similar problems, and finding a sexual partner seems allmost impossible. I really think society today is far too focused on the material world, and not the natural world.
You people work all dayand too tired to enjoy life at night. I am 74 years old and always been sexually active up until my wife got sick about 11 years ago and we had a fantastic sex life but since then none at all.
I am 64 years old and recently retired kids gone and feel lonely and forgotten.