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Dating a guy you met in a bar

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But with zero fucks left to contribute to caring what men think of me, I decide to go for it. Can you call someone you met for a a few moments casually, with no expectations or pressure, without it being received as clinginess, weirdness, or just plain insanity? So, I start with my call log. Clarity of conversation in a rowdy bar setting is never the easiest task, but luckily I was successful in communicating the jist of my text-free lifestyle constraints.

This guy is handsome.

What can I say. My guard is down.

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My boundaries are, counterintuitively, making me act more open. As I start to scoot closer to the door, he asks if he can see me again soon. He asks for my number.

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I input my number and mystery man says the fateful words. But I go on to explain. I want to get a pulse on his schedule. I want to honor my curiosity and explore him, very casually, yet intentionally, a little more.

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I want to connect. Even just saying that out loud sounds confident and clear, but a little much for a new person. Calling forces us to not only have some balls, but to know where to swing those balls.

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And who to swing them at. Do I just wait for him to call me, then?

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A stranger I met at a bar, with a voice, on the other end of a phone? But first, I hesitate. Why am I scared to call him?

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This implicit rule on calling vs. Courtship has become centered around keeping options open.

And I know I must have come off as intense or needy. Maybe I was perceived as intimidating.

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In any case, I feel liberated. The communication bandaid has been torn.

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I had to call someone today I met on the dancefloor at a bar last night. I suspect the latter is true. I opt to bite the bullet.

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I pick up the phone. It goes to voicemail.

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The lesson here isn't that...

In December ofonline dating was decidedly not a thing—at least Had I met my him online back when I was 24 our “How We Met” story. Whoever told you aren't going to meet the guy you're going to marry on when you're back in New York, after you've been dating for say, two. The lesson here isn't that you can meet an eligible someone at a bar; it's that haphazardly swiping left on your iPhone or scrolling through dating profiles all.


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